Sneakiest assumption ever

The sneakiest assumption ever is this: other people are like us.

It’s sneaky because most of us are pretty aware that it’s not true in a wide variety of ways. We know other people don’t always look like we do, think like we do, or believe what we do. We understand that maybe when [...]

Questioning desire

I’ve talked about the virtues of habit, the ways that we can use habit and routine to continually recreate the kind of life we want to have. In the same way, though, habits can consistently drag us back into thoughts, stories, and patterns that don’t serve us or support our desires. When we [...]